34 Bars…Straight, No Chaser

IMG_3862

 

Yesterday I turned 34 and have been in some type of peculiar mental space. My mind runs 10 miles per minute and I often go through random bouts of deep somber introspection. So I decided to be even more transparent than usual and share my soul with you all: 34 Bars…Straight, No Chaser.

  1. 34 times I’ve felt like giving up.
  2. 34 times I wasn’t always perfect but pretended to be.
  3. 34 times I lied to get something I wanted.
  4. 34 times I gave people access who didn’t deserve entrance.
  5. 34 times I kept my mouth shut to make someone else happy.
  6. 34 times I promised myself I wouldn’t ever put myself in a certain situation again.
  7. 34 times you wanted my life but had no idea how to water my grass.
  8. 34 times I drank the pain away.
  9. 34 times I hurt someone’s feelings and didn’t care.
  10. 34 times I let my emotions rule a major decision.
  11. 34 times I hated my boss.
  12. 34 times my husband has made me upset.
  13. 34 times I wished I hadn’t been judged.
  14. 34 times I wanted to apologize but my pride wouldn’t let me.
  15. 34 times I made love to my husband and felt his spiritual electricity explode into my Earth.
  16. 34 times I Thanked God for my marriage.
  17. 34 times I missed my best friend.
  18. 34 times I was played by the same guy.
  19. 34 times I touched the scars on my abdomen and wondered how my child was doing in the after life.
  20. 34 times I wanted someone to forgive me.
  21. 34 times I kissed my children and prayed that they would survive through all of the injustices in the world.
  22. 34 times I wondered who my Father was.
  23. 34 times I wanted to be more supportive and loving to my siblings but didn’t know how to be.
  24. 34 times I cried when no one was around.
  25. 34 times I took up for people who will never know that I cared.
  26. 34 times I knew I was in the wrong.
  27. 34 times I saved a Company that didn’t value me.
  28. 34 times I’ve been vulnerable.
  29. 34 times I was quiet when I should’ve spoken up.
  30. 34 times I talked when I should’ve been quiet.
  31. 34 times I’ve hoped someone noticed that I wasn’t as strong as I always portray.
  32. 34 times my Mother didn’t understand me.
  33. 34 times I thought about not writing this.
  34. 34 times…I realized that I had to.
Advertisements

16 thoughts on “34 Bars…Straight, No Chaser

  1. Cuz, you have touched my heart with this one…54 times for me all those things. You r a God sent keep DOING you…lord u helping somebody(me) realize the struggle is real and we don’t have to struggle to be who were are we r wonderfully made..And I do matter amd I am a QUEEN..moving in my rightful place…KEEP DOING YOUR THIMG HELPING OTHER REALIZE,THEIR WORTH, AND THAT IT’S OKAY TO BE REAL,& TO BE NATURAL..

    …. LOVE YOU CUZ TO THE MOON AND BACK

    Liked by 1 person

  2. What does your shirt say? Great post! Turning 34 has been really interesting for me as well… I am enjoying the 30’s a lot better than 20’s. I think introspection is what helps make me more enjoyable for me. Great post. Happy Born Day…

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Wow…to write something like this had to have been such a personal reveal. So many of these I could relate to and it felt great knowing that I wasn’t strange for having experienced some of these things. I love how much we can impact others by opening up and sharing. Thank you 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s